The 12 year son of someone I have known for along time died on the weekend. The funeral was today.
Perhaps Paul Simon is right, that “sometimes even music / cannot substitute for tears”. But sometimes music can express what words can’t. And from the limited amount of music I know these days, I thought of this:
Smart People I Know 
very sorry to hear that. here is another not comforting-but-trying-to, song:
http://es.youtube.com/watch?v=WPdP4cDLomI