Great advice: It’s Time for You to Run for Office.
Don’t see politicians that represent you or the groups you feel represent you? All the more reason to run.
Don’t get me wrong: running for office and doing the job while you are in office are both difficult things. But if you are the type of person who want to make a positive difference and you are also the type who likes a challenge, then what’s stopping you?
If you suffer from the Sunday blues, whereby you spend Sunday evening dreading the upcoming week, I recommend you read this: Skip Monday Blues with Sort-Your-Life-Out Sundays – 99U. It is one way to hack your time and enjoy it more.
Another good hack is the making Thursday night the start of the weekend. Consider some of the things you enjoy doing on the weekend and schedule them for Thursday evening. Even people with jam packed weeks can do this occasionally. You still have to go in to work on Friday, but you feel you already have gotten a start on the weekend. It makes the weekend seem less stressed, at least for me.
Finally, if you feel every week is one busy day after another, try making Wednesday a night of putting everything down and just relaxing. Either pare back the things you’d normally do on Wednesday, or shift some of it to another day.
Ultimately you want to figure out how to do less throughout the week in order to enjoy each of the days in themselves, be they busy or slow. If you do that, the days you have to do things will help you enjoy the days you do not.
Pace yourself and enjoy yourself.
Ok, work doesn’t always suck, and sometimes it can be really great. But it sucks more often than it should. If you wonder why, these links can help you gain some perspective and insight.
- Why Workers Are Losing to Capitalists – Bloomberg– Not promising
- How to Maintain Your Sanity (and Be Productive) When You Work Alone • Jocelyn K. Glei– Those who work at home, take note.
- Meet the Developer Who Made Games for Three Years While Living on the Streets – Motherboard – If you feel you need motivation in a difficult work situation, read this
- Motivation is Overvalued. Environment Often Matters More. | James Clear – on the other hand, there’s this.
- Pocket: I Quit My Job to Live in a Tent and Write Code – more on working in difficult situations.
- The pursuit of loneliness: how I chose a life of solitude | Society | The Guardian– more for those who would rather work and be alone
- You Probably Need a Public Portfolio Even If You’re Not a Freelancer or a “Creative”– good advice, especially for people that think they need no such thing.
- I’m Ira Glass, Host of This American Life, and This Is How I Work – Glass provides some inspiration here.
- Can a company innovate without working its employees to death? – The Washington Post– You would HOPE so.
- A cycle of exploitation: How restaurants get cooks to work 12-hour days for minimum wage (or less) – The Globe and Mail– depressing but essential reading.
- The Simple Technique To Fit A 40-Hour Workweek Into 16. | Fast Company– and here is the opposite extreme.
- I worked in a video store for 25 years. Here’s what I learned as my industry died. – Vox– good insight for those in a threatened industry.
- Working with the Chaos Monkey– help for those dealing with chaos monkeys (I have recently).
- The secret to success: take risks, work hard, and get luck– obvs.
- The Shame of Work – New Rambler Review– hmmm.
- Final Frame: Office Propaganda | Apartment Therapy – Finally, a light link after all that.
(Image from the last link)
When you are young, life seems endless and countless. If this is you, I recommend you look at the charts provided by the folks Wait But Why. They break down your life into weeks and show you how it maps out over time. For example, like this:
They even have blank charts you can use to map out your own life.
It’s sobering to consider. You have less time than you think. If you believe that and use that to motivate yourself to appreciate life, then great. If you don’t believe that, head over to that site and do the math.
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If you want to go to Paris and have little money or little time, then the New York Times has two pages of information that might help:
- 36 Hours on the Left Bank, Paris – The New York Times
- Hotels in Paris for Under $150 – The New York Times
If you go after reading this, send me a postcard. 🙂
P.S. If you are in the mood for dreaming about going to France, here’s a bonus link from Decanter magazine: Château accommodation in Bordeaux: Living the dream
(Photo, by Ed Alcock, via a link to the page of The New York Times)
It’s a cliche: you only have one life to live. But it’s not really true. We experience many lives in our lifetime. Maybe it’s closer to 11, like this great post illustrates: You Only Live 11 Times, SMBC | Jesse Rogerson. Or maybe it is closer to some other number. Certainly we all go through major stages in our lives, and as we leave a stage, it can seem like we leave one life behind for another one. We are like performers, going from one theatre to another, retaining some parts of our act while discarding others.
Enjoy the life (or stage of life) you are in right now. Savour the best parts of it. Never assume they will last long, for they won’t. (Parents, in particular know this.) Likewise, for the more challenging aspects of your life right now: they won’t last for long, either. (It just seems that way). Accept and deal with them the best way you can, and know they will also recede and end.