Do you suffer from recurring nightmares? If you do, I highly recommend you read this. It has worked for me and it may work for you too. Sleep can be hard enough to get: being fearful of repeating a nightmare makes it harder.
Here are some other sleep tips from the New York Times that I thought were useful.
The Times also has advice on how to deal with waking up in the middle of the night and being unable to get back to sleep, here.
Do you exercise hard? If so, listen to Atlantic CEO Nicholas Thompson who argues that among the things you need to be successful athlete is good sleep.
Sleepwell is an initiative to help people sleep better without medication. You can check it out, here.
Forget resolutions: you can get healthier and fitter anytime. Heck, stop reading this and go touch your toes or head out for a walk. When you finish that you can check out these 20 links to help you with exercising more, weighing less, drinking less, sleeping better or anything else related to fitness and health:
- This is me: When the Last Thing You Want to Do Is Exercise.
- Not all cardio has to kill you: Low-Intensity Cardio Training: What Is It & How Does It Work?
- These are an old collection of links I’ve gathered that are good: Are you in terrible shape? Not so terrible but bad enough shape? Do you need help? Here you go
- This Simple Piece of Equipment Could Elevate Your Workout. Can you guess?
- Especially good for people who can only workout at home: How to get motivated to start exercising at home.
- One home form of exercise you can do: Embrace winter with this 5-minute outdoor yoga practice to connect with the earth and stand tall.
- You will have to go outside for this, though: Sprints.
- Very helpful if you feel stuck: How shifting your expectations about food can help you lose weight.
- 15 Impressive Fitness Goals to Strive for That Aren’t Weight Loss. This is great. For example, stretching and being more flexible.
- I felt this was bogus, and so did many who read it: Mike Pompeo tells The Post how he lost 90 pounds in six months. Glad he got fit, but I think he did that for reasons other than good health, and he lied how he did it.
- If you need a challenge: The 30-Day Well Challenge
- If you are considering your drinking, think of how it affects others: My sobriety is not just mine.
- This is good: Reframe: Drink Less & Thrive 17+
- As is this: Should You Try ‘Mindful Drinking’?
- A good intro to melatonin. It has not worked well for me, but it might for you: Melatonin Isn’t a Sleeping Pill. Here’s How to Use It.
- My Before-Sleep Ritual Is to Treat Myself Like a Baby. I liked that.
- Hey, this is good to know: The Secret to Making Colonoscopy Prep Less awful
- I like the qualifiers here: How to (Try to) Quit (Almost) Anything …
- Interesting: Retiring the Cinderella view of the spinal cord as an intrabodily cognitive extension
- Also good: Health Insider – Workout & Nutrition Blog
Are you worried you are a bad sleeper? Do you wake up in the middle of the night often and think: OMG I will never get back to sleep?? Do you fret daily about what can be done about your sleeping?
If those things apply to you, first of all, read this: Shuteye and Sleep Hygiene: The Truth About Why You Keep Waking up at 3 a.m.
The key take away I took from it is this:
A mindset change may be what’s needed. “People might have this belief that they are a ‘bad sleeper’ and there is nothing that they can do about it. Sometimes it’s about changing people’s perceptions of what good sleep looks like.” Taylor says she “really cannot bear” fitness trackers, which monitor sleep, for focusing people’s minds on often inaccurate data. It is wrong to assume that you must sleep through the night, every night, she says. “We all have blips in our sleep – it’s never going to be that you sleep brilliantly all the time.”
Maybe I am not the good sleeper I wish I was. But maybe it is not as bad as I feared. That might apply to you too.
(Photo by Sammy Williams on Unsplash )
If you feel the pandemic has messed up your sleep, you are not alone. Read this and with any luck you might find you can improve your sleep: How To Get a Better Night’s Sleep – The New York Times
The website FiveBooks.com will pick a topic and highlight five really good books on it. They have done it again with self help books. However, they seem to have decided that there are many types of self help books, so this piece has dozens of the best Self Help Books by various experts. You will no doubt find something there to help.
Get some sleep. Read some books. Make a good life better.
This is a fascinating article that illustrates that sleeping is a more complex activity than we know: Sleep Evolved Before Brains. Hydras Are Living Proof. | Quanta Magazine
I’ve always associated sleep with something our brains need to have in order to survive. (Sleep deprivation is one proof of that.) But I have been won over to the idea that sleep is a more fundamental property of living things, brain or no brain.
Read the article: I think you’ll find it fascinating too.
(Photo by Florian Olivo on Unsplash )
For anyone suffering from persistent insomnia, the idea that the condition has benefits is an absurd one. However, if you have occasional bouts of sleeplessness, you can reap some rewards. As this piece argues…
Being unable to sleep night after night, for weeks on end, is – of course – hell. But in smaller doses, insomnia does not need a cure. Occasional sleeplessness is an asset, a help with some key troubles of the soul. Crucial things we need may only get a chance to happen during a few active hours in the middle of the night. We should revise our assessment of sleeplessness.
I agree with this. I have had a few rounds of insomnia lately brought on from work stress and I found that I was able to work out some problems during this time. I was fortunate: I took a break midday when I was tired and had a brief nap and I was fine. I realize that not everyone can recover so easily.
To read the entire piece, go here: Perspectives on Insomnia -The School of Life Articles | Formally The Book of Life. Photo by Megan te Boekhorst on Unsplash.
If you are having sleep problems, read #1. If you need to understand why you need to sleep more, read #2.
- Shuteye and Sleep Hygiene: The Truth About Why You Keep Waking up at 3 a.m.
- Scientists Now Know How Sleep Cleans Toxins From the Brain | WIRED
I especially liked #2. I had a long held belief that is why we sleep. It’s satisfying to see it established by science.
We all need clean and shiny brains. To do that, get some sleep.
Sleep. At least according to this: ‘Waves’ of fluid clear the brain of toxins during sleep, say researchers – Big Think.
When you sleep, your brain is designed to wash away toxic chemical buildup in your brain. If that toxic buildup is allowed to stick around (due to lack of sleep), bad things happen to your brain and you.
So clean your brain. Get some sleep. See the article to understand more of this.
I was aware of white noise, but I didn’t realize there is a range of noises associated with colour:
Both pink and white noise are members of an entire color family of sound including black and brown noise. Sounds are assigned these colors based on how energy is distributed over several frequencies, according to Healthline.com. White noise, for example, is comprised of energy that is equally distributed across all audible frequencies. Brown noise, sometimes called red noise, consists of higher energies at lower frequencies—think thunder and deep, roaring sounds.
Pink noise, on the other hand, is a shade deeper than white noise. It’s similar to white noise in that it includes all audible frequencies; however, unlike white noise, energy is not distributed equally among them.
I have found that the rain sounds I listen to are more pink noise than white noise, and I prefer it for sleeping. If you are having trouble sleeping or relaxing, try listening to some pink noise.
For more on it, see: Pink Noise Sleep Benefits | Apartment Therapy
Use this: Irish Coast • Ocean Waves, Wind and Rain Noise Generator.
It’s fantastic. Perfect for sleep sounds, or to listen to while working.
I have had a number of white noise devices with some of them costing a lot more than the Mini. They are not hard to set up and once you do you can ask it to play rain sounds or relaxing sounds or whatever sounds help you relax or sleep it work. Plus you get all the advantages of having it to find out the weather, get news, set appointments and more. If you don’t mind having one in your house – and some people do – then you can buy them everywhere, like here: m.bestbuy.ca/en-CA/product/google-home-mini-charcoal/11615336
More good advice about sleeping from Vox: How to sleep better
I agree with most of this, but there is one part I want to highlight:
If you’re not sleeping and getting anxious about not sleeping, just get out of bed and leave the bedroom. Sleep specialists have established that staying in bed while you’re anxious or not sleeping is one of the most common contributors to chronic insomnia, because it trains the brain and creates bad associations.
The part in italics is key. If you are not getting anxious about it, you likely can stay there until you fall asleep. At least that works for me. I have tried getting up and I find that more disruptive. Now when I can’t sleep, I tell myself that at least I am getting rest and I will likely fall back to sleep, and almost always I do.
If you are like most people, you don’t get enough sleep. Also, you likely wish you could get more sleep. If you fall into both of those categories, why not read this guide right now: The 2-minute guide to getting better sleep – Vox. (It will take you 2 minutes: you have time). Take some notes, then make this weekend your goal to get more sleep.
Get some rest; improve your life.
I ask that because as you can see from these charts, in terms of impairment, there is not much difference from showing up for work tired and showing up for work drunk:
Weirdly, if you do show up tired from overwork, you may be praised: if you show up drunk, you may be fired.
Regardless, to do good work, you need to sleep. (I know, I should practice what I preach.)
Julia Kirby in HBR has more on this in this piece: Change the World and Get to Bed by 10:00. You’ll be convinced to go to bed earlier by the time you finish it.
You print off this article: How to Get Through a Workday on No Sleep — Science of Us and you follow it step by step, hour by hour. Really. It has a great rundown of all the things you should do and why.
Of course the best thing is to do what it takes to get some sleep the night before. Or call in sick and get some rest. If neither of those options are available, what you read in that article may be the thing that saves you.
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This WSJ article makes the case that you can probably get by with less than eight. Given the audience of the Wall Street Journal, I am not surprised they would have such an article.
For more reasonable people, this article in Real Simple (So Now We Only Need 7 Hours of Sleep? Not So Fast) makes more sense.
As I get older I lean towards getting more sleep, but to each their own.
Regardless, the weekend is coming up. Get some sleep.
P.S. The image, from the wikipedia section on sleep, shows the downside of lack of sleep.
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