It’s not likely laziness. As LizAndMollie illustrates above, it’s likely due to
- feeling inadequate
- not knowing where to start
- being stretched too thin
- perfectionism (or for me, not wanting to mess up)
So give yourself a bit of a break when you feel you aren’t getting things done.
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If you have big projects that you have been struggling with, I recommend these two pieces:
Sometime you need to gain a big of perspective in the daunting face of what seems is an overwhelming effort. Those pieces can help you.
(Photo by Brett Jordan on Unsplash)
What, you say? That makes no sense. Procrastination is a thing to be avoided, not perfected.
But let’s face it: some of you — us! — will always be procrastinators. If it is something that will be always with us, why not make the best of it?
That’s what this piece argues. By structuring your procrastination, you can still get important things done…it just not the thing you really ought to be doing.
So take a lesson from that piece on structured procrastination and go do the second most important thing on your list. Or third. Whatever.
I’d like to add that if you do that, you might get some wind in your sails and find that after you’ve effectively procrastinated, you can go back and work on the thing that you really ought to be doing.
Procrastination: make it work for you.
P.S. Yes, I wrote this as a way to avoid some things I should be doing.
Alex Vermeer has a poster that might be the thing you need: How to Get Motivated: A Guide for Defeating Procrastination
Do you ever get stuck in this loop?
If so, then the Atlantic has an article for you. According to this article, The Procrastination Doom Loop—and How to Break It – The Atlantic,
Delaying hard work is all about your mood.
And it goes on to talk about how to defeat this.
Seven additional suggestions I have on defeating this doom loop:
- set a regular schedule of tackling difficult tasks and stick with it.
- dilute the difficulty by giving yourself a ridiculous amount of time to do it. If it will likely take 20 minutes, schedule 2 hours and just sit there and do nothing else until you get it done.
- set up a reward for getting it done.
- set up significant negative consequences for not getting it done. You might need help from a friend or coach here.
- log the positive feelings and thoughts you feel after you get it done. Review that often.
- log the negative feelings and thoughts you have before you do it. After you do it, analyse what you wrote and revisit your thinking and feeling. You will likely find it wasn’t as bad as you had expected.
- have a list of things you are procrastinating on. For example, if you have two things you are avoiding, try to avoid doing one of them by doing the other. It’s better to get one thing done than getting none done
I find myself on my smartphone too much. It’s too easy to fall into that trap, and afterwards I wish I did something else instead. Did something useful. Or made something beautiful. Austin Kleon feels the same way, based on this post of his: Read a book instead. He made a screen lock for his phone to remind him to read a book and get off his phone.
I decided I wanted something similar. In my case, I found a photo I liked and used the Over app on my iPhone to create this:
I then saved it as my LockScreen. Now when I pick up the phone to start doing something mindless, the phone reminds me to do something better.
You can do the same thing yourself. You don’t even need an app or drawing skills. Write a reminder on a piece of paper and then take a photo of it with your phone and save it as your Lock Screen. It could be just the nudge you need.
Thanks for reading this. I hope you found it useful. If you did, then time spent doing it instead of playing with stuff on my phone was worthwhile.